Being Jealous With Somebody

PRECAUTIONARY MEASURE: THIS ARTICLE IS INDEED, A LITTLE BIT SENSITIVE IN NATURE. PLEASE READ UP AHEAD. [Please proceed if you want to. Haha.]



INTRODUCTION

Well, here's a person, single in nature, with previous relationships (ex) writing about jealousy. But is it really matter?

And, oh. How can a person feel upon the point of being jealous? Especially in the world of technology, wherein one is connected after the other, social media thingie, Google, and other things that would inhibit stalking another person, more than just a typical surveillance agency would do.

The Girl: Hey traitor, you are subject to be punished! [Really?]

But then again, how would we determine that we are jealous to somebody? 

Well, let's get started.

The more we get together, the happier are we!

THE DEFINITION.

So, what is jealousy? Uhm, accordingly, it is a feeling that one is insecure upon the acts of another partner, let us say, to another person such as your friend. For instance, you have your girlfriend, and this girlfriend of yours is talking to, let us say, a stranger. Well, by mere fact, with mere doubt, a possibility of jealousy will take place, ripping friendships apart.



So what is basally the pint here?

It's simply the lack of trust. Oh, come on, one is in the relationship after the other, then there's a lack of trust? In this point of view, that is indeed pure insanity!

Oh well. It's just people being people, with feelings on this and that, that is indeed normal. (what could possibly go wrong?)

THE FEELINGS. ERM, THE SIGNS

Okay. What are the signs of being jealous? Well, here are the following.

• Being bad with the person he or she is talking
• Bragging/Nagging with you with somebody as a topic.
• Ignoring you, or even unfriend you on facebook
• Keeping distance with you.
• You text, NO REPLY!
• Snob, snob, and more snobbing.
• Having this unsolved, and you ended your relationship. :)

Well, are you related with the following details above? It's out of love. They are just simply gone disappointed with you having no time with that one you've been in a relationship. But, don't worry. There are cures. Oh, really?

ANY CURES, ANYONE?

Okay, for every problem, there is a corresponding solution.

• Seek advice with a friend
• Seek advice from an elderly
• Find a way to restore a relationship, anyway possible.
• Once there, apologize. 
• Also, explain why such things take place.
• Make an assurance that such things will never happen again.
• Gain trust with one another. Swear an oath, if possible. :D
• And, it ends with a hug. (chuckles)

Uhh... So lovely.

And if any of this thing don't work, just take it from experience. Find another, and make sure you applied the laws of attraction. [Huh!]

CONCLUSION

So, it goes out simple. Gain trust more, whenever possible. A relationship is like a ship. If you're a captain, save a relation-ship from sinking across a storm. Ahoy captain!

Special notes: Once your relationship is in stable position, and there is less jealousy, congratulations, you deserved an award. Yehey!

But remember, life has ups and downs. So does relationship. So, take care of it. It's fragile. Once it is broken, goodbye relationship!

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