Weirdness, Signs and Lovely Infatuations

Ever seen a smile so perplexed with the eyes shines so bright that is almost equivalent to flirting? Or spending the rest of the evening texting with a girl that may seem endless? Well, most boys who is in transition to be a man is tantamount to such a thing.


INTRODUCTION

Obsession? Lovely interjections? Mere coincidence? It was such a weird thing citing the mere fact that a person sees through the unusual particularly the actions of say, a lady or a gentlemen. What does it mean? Does it pertain to mere symbolism wherein they give something like a hidden message to have some romance or such? Or does it pertain only to mere flirting wherein one does admire his handsomeness or her exquisite beauty so amazing that many men wanted to have that woman. Not to mention of course the intelligence, the sexiness, and the purest of attitudes that is slowly unfolding in the eyes of the beholder. 

THE SIGNS

A screengrab from WikiHow.

If one do obsessed with the signs, maybe this song made by the ace of base will be there to relate up the story. But, on a serious note, what are the signs that a person must see to determine one's likeness to him or her?

Well, let's take the standpoint of a man, since we are the ones who will court these girls out to amplify the love and win out their hearts. As for man to see the overwhelming signs to see a girl, here are some of the tips that one may follow.

Seeing the way they smile is the first thing to do. What was it? How to see and differentiate a friendly smile over a romantic one? Well, as per experience and some on-going friendly variances, one can see the ultimate difference between the two. As per say, the thing that keeps men driving crazy is indeed a flirting smile that is too much to see that at first may seem as unexplained and awkward, may be revealed at a later date.

A flirting smile it was. Source: WikiHow.

Such smiles are indeed so appealing that the effect on a man's mind may go on lasted for days with some unexplained phenomena as per unending series of insomnia with some mixed weird feelings that churning a man's mind where it defies logic and eventually enters to the world where everything goes fantasized. It was as if one was gone thru daydreaming.

Another is being awkward and is shy on having conversations. Well, be aware on this sign. It may be perceived as one being unfriendly or in terms that have no fixtures. This is one, sign that is not easily to be assumed of. Per suggestion, it is at best observe within the time period of 3 to 6 months varying on the relative status wherein the friendships, or beyond than that, may be determine the measurement that gives a guarantee that it is indeed as such. However, if one really wants a longer relationship out of pure live, infatuations must be set aside together with pride and some other destructive things and instead focus on the weaknesses for the betterment.

Another one is having touched on the shoulder or somewhere else in the body. Again. Do not assume unless it is otherwise stated. Such bumpy, touchy moves are deemed to be misinterpreted for a long time, as if it was perceived between friends and those who were more than friends that may not easily be determined until time arises. So, just keep on guard on this one.

These are just some of the examples of the signs that needs to be watched 24/7 like those CCTVs on a department store checking for burglars. Well, being friendzoned is not bad at all. In fact, some failed and busted moves are deemed to be revised and to be refitted from its original form and to ensure that it is not a fitted for but not with things, some advice from the so-called advisers may do. But in the end of the day, its on the individual who decides the fate into the oblivion.

WEIRDNESS

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By definition of weirdness, it is the thing that is way beyond the normal norms of the person that is done not by mentally-retarded people, but by normal people in which they act differently than the way they used to be.

Running into the minds of those persons, one thing comes into the mind: Are they crazy? Why do they act as such? Why do they act differently from what they are originally were? These are some of the questions that are deemed to be answered as the right time goes by and by until the end of the day, questions are answered by simply having them leaking out of the blue like [[meh. >.<]]

Weirdness are either as the result of many, many years of having isolated from a home with no neighbors and instead having his or her toy as a friend or as a result of falling in love (which is infatuation, by the way). Things of such may come in a sensitive behavior or having defensive or having their eyes blink twice the normal average, and so on. That would also include talking to the self, doing some freaking experiments, or some nonsense out of boredom.

Overall, it was normal by mere nature that people do act weird. And here is one advice: Don't take it by heart. If so, it will become the norm that is indeed not a norm and one day, such norm will never gets compatible in the society's norms because it is not connected as such. Get changed for the better, and stay normative as they were.

INFATUATION

Infatuation by appearance

Infatuation is different from love. And infatuation is not equal to love. How to differentiate the two?

Here is the difference as given by diffen.com

Comparison chart

	Infatuation	Love
Definition	Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire.	An intense feeling of deep affection.
Symptoms	Urgency, intensity, sexual desire, anxiety, high risk choices, reckless abandonment of what was once valued.	Faithfulness, loyalty, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance.
Person to Person	Reckless commitment to satisfy one's all consuming lust.	Commitment to another. Genuine intentions. Think about other person's feelings before acting.
Feels like	All-consuming euphoria similar to recreational drug use (addictive chemical reactions in the brain), stupidity (cupidity). Can risk everything for the next hit of adrenalin.	A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. You are loving your best friend.
Result	Emptiness, consequences of choices made while under the influence of mind numbing temporary lust.	Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident, secure children.
Effect	Being controlled by brain chemistry, not the heart, loss of ability to make rational evaluations of what is true, valuable and worthy.	Contentment, stability.
Interdependency	Cannot be sustained without some portion of love and physical attraction. Desire to be always close to that person at any cost.	Partnership. Can lead to codependency if not tempered with self-awareness and self-guidedness.
Time Period	Takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness.	It will deepen with the passage of time.
Commitment	This is temporary in life and goes off after some period.	This feeling may continue throughout one's life.
Bottom Line	Infatuation is delusional. Not real.	Love is unconditional and the real deal.
Patience	Infatuation is of the now.	Love is a gradual process. It happens over time.

The chart alone can explain the difference between the two. In other words, what may perceived as love can be not love at all. It may be something else such as sexual desire or some other things that are mere selfish...

CONCLUSION

Overall, these things summarizes as to the typical feelings of a teenager who is changing into a man, or a man who is single but still do not know the real meanings of love. In other words, ladies and gentlemen, that all of such flirty things spouting out of the blue, it may be perceived as love or mere infatuation. Or as per courting procedures, it may be perceived as romance or friendzoned. Well, with this information comes a very important advice: Never assume unless it is otherwise stated.

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